How to Support a Loved One After an Alzheimer’s Diagnosis

Around 10.9% of Americans over 65 have dementia caused by Alzheimer’s disease. Hearing that a loved one has this condition can bring a flood of emotions — shock, fear, sadness, even confusion, and it’s natural to feel unsure about what to do next.  

While Alzheimer’s gradually changes memory and behavior, your support, patience, and love can make a lasting difference. At Kenneth K. Wogensen, MD, we help families navigate this journey with compassion and understanding. Here’s how you can support someone after an Alzheimer’s diagnosis.

1. Learn about the disease

Education is one of the most powerful tools you have. Understanding how Alzheimer’s affects the brain and how it progresses over time helps you respond with empathy rather than frustration. By learning more, you’ll not only feel more prepared, but you’ll also help your loved one feel less alone and misunderstood.

Learn about each stage of the disease, common symptoms, and what to expect as it advances. Reliable sources such as our board-certified neurologist, Dr. Wogensen, and the Alzheimer’s Association provide accurate information and practical guidance.

2. Communicate with compassion

As memory and thinking decline, communication may become challenging. Keep your tone calm and kind, use simple language, and give your loved one extra time to respond. Avoid correcting them harshly if they forget something or repeat themselves. Instead, gently redirect the conversation or reassure them.

Nonverbal communication, such as smiles, eye contact, and touch, can also help maintain emotional connection. Your presence and patience often speak louder than words.

3. Encourage independence where possible

Even after diagnosis, your loved one may still be capable of doing many things on their own. Encourage them to stay involved in daily activities like cooking simple meals, watering plants, or folding laundry. These tasks help preserve dignity, confidence, and a sense of normalcy.

Create a safe environment by labeling drawers, managing medications, and removing tripping hazards. Small adjustments can go a long way toward keeping patients with dementia safe while promoting independence.

4. Create meaningful routines

People with Alzheimer’s often find comfort in predictable routines. Regular meal times, a consistent bedtime, and familiar surroundings can reduce anxiety and confusion. Include enjoyable activities such as listening to music, taking short walks, or looking through old photos.

Meaningful routines strengthen emotional bonds and provide stability for both of you. They also help make caregiving more manageable by reducing unexpected stress.

5. Take care of yourself, too

Caring for someone with Alzheimer’s can be physically and emotionally exhausting. It’s vital to look after your own health so you can continue to offer effective support. Make time for rest, maintain your social connections, and don’t hesitate to ask for help when needed.

Consider joining a dementia caregiver support group, where you can share experiences and learn coping strategies from others going through similar challenges. Remember, caring for yourself isn't selfish — it’s essential.

6. Plan for the future early

As Alzheimer’s progresses, decision-making becomes more difficult. It’s best to discuss future care, legal matters, and medical wishes early, while your loved one can still participate in the conversation. Talk about financial planning, advance directives, and preferred living arrangements.

Having these discussions ahead of time can prevent confusion and help you honor your loved one’s values and preferences later on.

7. Stay connected with their healthcare team

Your loved one’s care team — especially their neurologist — plays a vital role in managing Alzheimer’s. Regular check-ups enable the team to monitor disease progression, adjust medications, and promptly address new symptoms.

At Kenneth K. Wogensen, MD, we work closely with patients and families to create individualized care plans. We also connect caregivers with resources for education and emotional support. Staying engaged with the care team ensures your loved one receives the best possible treatment and guidance.

8. Celebrate the moments that matter

Alzheimer’s may change how you communicate and connect, but it doesn’t erase love or shared history. Celebrate small victories like a smile, a laugh, a familiar song remembered.

These moments can bring joy and strengthen emotional bonds despite the challenges. Focusing on the present helps create meaningful experiences, even as memories fade.

Supporting your loved one with compassion

An Alzheimer’s diagnosis can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to face it alone. Compassion, education, and patience can make the journey smoother for both you and your loved one.

We provide expert neurological care, personalized guidance, and supportive resources to help families navigate the challenges of Alzheimer’s disease. Together, we can create a care plan that promotes dignity, safety, and quality of life.

If you or someone you love has been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s, schedule a consultation at Kenneth K. Wogensen, MD, to learn how our team can help you move forward with understanding and hope. Call or use the online form to get in touch.